November 23, 2012

Families building future


In the “Un Techo para Todos” and “22 de Enero” neighborhoods in La Matanza, HPHA continues to carry out the “Developing Neighborhoods Project”.  In the context of this project, the “Seeds of Hope” construction event took place.  The three families carefully selected to be a part of this project are headed by Noelia, Johana, and Sonia who have participated from the very beginning of the process.  Over the two week event, we were able to get to know them a bit better, and their stories are inspiring.


“ALL TOGETHER, MUCH MORE CAN BE DONE”.
Getting to know Noelia Fernández

Noelia is the head of her household.  She is separated from the father of her five-year-old son; and works in a co-operative which his trying to recover a steel factory.  She has lived in “Un Techo para Todos” since she was three.  Her story highlights the fundamental value of the family and encourages other families. “For my son to have a roof, a home that will still be here tomorrow, something that is his…that has always been my goal” – with these words, Noelia, a very outspoken young woman, makes her priorities in life very clear. And like other fathers and mothers of the area, Noelia says that the main reason that has led her to fight for housing has been to provide a better place to live for her children.

At the moment Noelia lives with her son opposite where her parents live. They are one of the founding families of the neighborhood, and support her throughout this process. For her, this sense of “family solidarity” as well as the support of her boyfriend, has been crucial in achieving her goal of a home. Noelia says it has been the family and the education that were instilled in her from a very early age which allow her to continue the process of looking for better living conditions.

Like many single mothers in the neighborhood, Noelia believes that the role of women is critical in the development of the area, because the values that will support children in the future are grounded in family. Thus, the role of women in the neighborhood is extremely important, since they are the ones involved in the organized activities for the community. In the specific case of the activities organized by HPHA, Noelia states: “Here it really shows the power of women; I think much of what has been achieved is partly thanks to women from the neighborhood that have children, those who suffer in the neighborhood, and everyone fighting to improve. ..Obviously the motivation will always be their children”.



Regarding the importance of housing for families, Noelia points out that “when you think about starting a family, the first thing is the roof, and now it costs a lot to have a house. It is impossible to buy a house because everything is very expensive”. For Noelia, HPHA was a clear opportunity to gain access to adequate housing, to prosper and thrive with the proposal for a Seed House, which had begun to be built in the construction event. “I took part in HPHA talks and workshops and I see that there is much more than a loan for you to make your house. It would be good for all of the neighbors to learn so they can draw on that faith and hope of doing things in this neighborhood for everyone”. As they say at HPHA, “All together, we can achieve much more”.


“I LOOK FORWARD TO HAVING A DECENT HOUSE FOR MY DAUGHTERS SAKE”.
Testimony from Johana y Pablo

Johana and Pablo are a young couple with two daughters. She is a housewife, daughter of one of the founding families of the “22 de Enero” neighborhood, and has lived her whole life there. He works in a bakery, and comes from one of the many towns surrounding Buenos Aires. They currently live in Johana’s parents’ home. This situation has led to eleven people living in a small home, resulting in damaging conditions of overcrowding. With the involvement of HPHA, Johana and Pablo are now in the process of building their Seed House. Faced with the expectations regarding the process of building the house, Johana said the following, “My hope is to have a decent house to give my daughters, live together with my husband and daughters like a normal family, and have our own house”. Both Johana and Pablo emphasize the importance of intimacy and privacy, and for a family to have their own space. The overcrowding in their current home, according to them, doesn’t let them adapt and express themselves as a family, and leads to anger and chaos

For Johana, adequate housing is characterized by having a space to be with her family, where her daughters can play and develop freely. For her, family development and being her own homeowner is an urgent need. “Everything starts here; education, managing your kids, or teaching them good manners…it all starts in your house, your own home. For me it is important to have privacy as a mother with my daughters, so they will know I am the mother and so I can teach them manners”. For Pablo, living in crowded conditions involves many hardships, to the point that he says he prefers to stay out of the house. In Johana’s case, there is a lack of privacy and although there is collective support in maintaining the household that is sometimes positive, the space issue interferes with her ability to be a good motherly influence and authority figure for her children.



Both say that the work done by HPHA is priceless, and is a reflection of altruism towards those in need. Pablo says: “You never forget that; I don’t know, I have no words for that, they are here, helping us! I have always done it by myself, just me, and nobody has given me anything… we are still speechless …”. For Johana, the work done by HPHA volunteers in building their Seed Home is an example of generosity: “They show the solidarity they have with people, that everyone can do it! These are people that I do not know but they are bending rebar so we can have a new house, and that is an emotion that grabs you because nobody has ever given you anything, no one came to ask me if I needed a house and HPHA has given me an opportunity….”.

HPHA’s work establishes a point of reference for other families that want to move forward in projects for adequate housing; this, without a doubt, represents a very important contribution to the lives of urban inhabitants and their attachment and identification with the city that often tends to make them invisible and push them to the side. Johana expresses this in a very heartfelt way: “I was born here; my neighborhood is my world and cradle. The city is like the top, the head, and we are the little toes, we are what no one wants to see.”


“A HOME IS A PLACE WHERE YOUR CHILDREN CAN FACE THE WORLD WHEN YOU ARE GONE”.
Testimony from Sonia and Carlos

Carlos and Sonia are a married couple who have lived together for 14 years, and for half of that time they have shared a home in the “Un Techo para Todos” neighborhood. Carlos works in the construction sector and Sonia is a housewife; they presently have three children, ages seven, eight, and eleven respectively.

For Carlos, even though some things like insecurity are not easy to handle in the neighborhood, you should try living life full of optimism - “Since you have come to the neighborhood, you always think about the good, to be in this place is beautiful above all things…” he says. Sonia welcomes the opportunity to have her own home; however humble, it is a place where they can be together. But she also knows of the drawbacks of living in the area are mainly mud during the rainy season and the danger of going out at night – “The trouble is that the municipality doesn’t want to recognize the neighborhood, they always say it is a settlement and that is why improvements fail”.



They learned about HPHA through the Concordia Foundation, another community organization that has a presence in the area. Carlos in thankful for the collaborative work given by the organization, and knows it is not given with motives of economic profit like a bank, but instead aimed at strengthening community efforts to build decent living areas.

The work that HPHA performs in these neighborhoods is, to Sonia and Carlos, a fundamental contribution, because people with few economic resources can now have the support and possibility to also build a house where “everyone can have their space to not disturb others, or where children can do homework”, says Sonia, to which Carlos adds, “it is a place where your children can face the world when you are gone”

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